We were watching the Wizard of Oz like we often do, (after all, it is Miss A’s favorite movie) and we get to the famous poppy scene. There ahead lies this beautiful field of poppies. Dorothy, Scarecrow, Tin Man, Lion and Toto rush in full force excited and full of hope. Quickly, however, things begin to change. They begin to tire and there in the middle of that beautiful place, they find themselves utterly exhausted and not able to go on. Tin Man and Scarecrow can’t imagine anything worse. They begin to frantically yell for help but are sure no one is around to hear their cries.
Then suddenly, it begins to snow. Big, white fluffy snowflakes begin covering that field of flowers. The snow at first glance is only adding to their problems. But is it? Soon all their sleeping companions begin to wake. Not only do they wake, but they awake refreshed and more excited than ever to continue their journey.
That’s sums up the emotion of the last few weeks. We started out full of excitement to be adding another member to our family. Then, right there in the middle of that beautiful moment, things changed. But our cries do not fall on deaf ears. We serve a living God who knew what we would need even before we did. So, he sent those big, fluffy snowflakes in the form of your prayers and kind words. We thank you for that.
THINGS I’VE LEARNED ABOUT MISCARRYING
1. It’s every bit as painful as labor because, in fact, that is what you are doing.
2. It is not a quick process. It can take up to two weeks sometimes longer when choosing to do it “conservatively”. (without a d&c)
3. You now can choose between having a d&c or just letting things go naturally. From talking to others, this was not always the case.
4. The backache, cramping and bleeding can get pretty intense. But you can also have days where it’s barely noticeable. (at least in my experience)
5. Your abs feel like you’ve had quite the workout and it is quite uncomfortable to lift, bend and laugh. But really, it’s not like those are necessary to daily life
6. Chocolate and hugs are both much appreciated
7. Others are more uncomfortable than I am when it comes to talking about “it”. I actually find it somewhat therapeutic to talk. After all, it is a pretty significant event in our lives. It’s not that I want to broadcast it necessarily, but I’m not afraid to answer questions.
8. Finding that others are due with their little ones around the same time I should have been, is comforting yet brings a little tear to my eye.
9. We have amazing friends and family to lean on. We are blessed. Not everyone has that.
10. We feel much like King David in 2 Samuel 12. He prayed and fasted until it was clear that the baby would not live. Then he got up, brushed himself off, and was ready for the next chapter in life. We are ready for the next adventure.
11. Our hope is in the Lord that’s why death and life are not scary. Knowing him, brings comfort and peace in even the most turbulent of times. The only way to have that peace is to know the answer to this question: if you died today, are you 100% sure that you would spend eternity in heaven? If you aren’t, we should talk
Then suddenly, it begins to snow. Big, white fluffy snowflakes begin covering that field of flowers. The snow at first glance is only adding to their problems. But is it? Soon all their sleeping companions begin to wake. Not only do they wake, but they awake refreshed and more excited than ever to continue their journey.
That’s sums up the emotion of the last few weeks. We started out full of excitement to be adding another member to our family. Then, right there in the middle of that beautiful moment, things changed. But our cries do not fall on deaf ears. We serve a living God who knew what we would need even before we did. So, he sent those big, fluffy snowflakes in the form of your prayers and kind words. We thank you for that.
THINGS I’VE LEARNED ABOUT MISCARRYING
1. It’s every bit as painful as labor because, in fact, that is what you are doing.
2. It is not a quick process. It can take up to two weeks sometimes longer when choosing to do it “conservatively”. (without a d&c)
3. You now can choose between having a d&c or just letting things go naturally. From talking to others, this was not always the case.
4. The backache, cramping and bleeding can get pretty intense. But you can also have days where it’s barely noticeable. (at least in my experience)
5. Your abs feel like you’ve had quite the workout and it is quite uncomfortable to lift, bend and laugh. But really, it’s not like those are necessary to daily life
6. Chocolate and hugs are both much appreciated
7. Others are more uncomfortable than I am when it comes to talking about “it”. I actually find it somewhat therapeutic to talk. After all, it is a pretty significant event in our lives. It’s not that I want to broadcast it necessarily, but I’m not afraid to answer questions.
8. Finding that others are due with their little ones around the same time I should have been, is comforting yet brings a little tear to my eye.
9. We have amazing friends and family to lean on. We are blessed. Not everyone has that.
10. We feel much like King David in 2 Samuel 12. He prayed and fasted until it was clear that the baby would not live. Then he got up, brushed himself off, and was ready for the next chapter in life. We are ready for the next adventure.
11. Our hope is in the Lord that’s why death and life are not scary. Knowing him, brings comfort and peace in even the most turbulent of times. The only way to have that peace is to know the answer to this question: if you died today, are you 100% sure that you would spend eternity in heaven? If you aren’t, we should talk